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I’m an open book. I’ll tell you pretty much anything if you ask. Here’s a peek into my life, and maybe some “behind the scenes” from the shoots.
Worried You’ll Be Judged? Let’s Talk About That.
Worried about being judged in a boudoir session? You don’t have to be. At Boudoir by Constance, every session is a safe, supportive space where your body is honored, your comfort is prioritized, and your confidence can flourish.
Miss B’s Boudoir Experience: From Nervous to Confident in Front of the Camera
Worried about being judged in a boudoir session? You don’t have to be. At Boudoir by Constance, every session is a safe, supportive space where your body is honored, your comfort is prioritized, and your confidence can flourish.
“I’m Awkward in Photos” — Why That’s Not a Problem at All!
Think you’re awkward in photos? You’re not alone—and it’s not a problem. You don’t need to know how to pose or feel confident before your boudoir session. With guided posing, breathing cues, and constant support, the awkwardness fades and confidence takes its place.
Miss C’s Boudoir Experience: From Self-Doubt to Seeing Herself Beautiful
Miss C came into her boudoir session feeling deeply self-conscious about her body and unsure she could ever look “that beautiful.” What she discovered instead was confidence, comfort, and a new way of seeing herself—one that felt real, kind, and empowering.
Introducing Our Body Jewelry Mini Set: A Show-Stopping Add-On for Any Session
Originally created for our exclusive Showgirl Set, our Body Jewelry Mini Set is now available as an add-on for any boudoir session. With multiple styles, colors, and inclusive sizing from XS–6X, this mini set is designed to celebrate your body with confidence, sparkle, and main-character energy.
Miss M’s Boudoir Experience: Nervous, Excited, and Completely Empowered
Inspired by a friend, Miss M booked her first boudoir session feeling nervous and excited. After flawless hair and makeup, and a revealing Image Reveal, she left amazed at herself and reminded that boudoir is for you—not anyone else.
Will Anything Even Fit Me?
Worried that nothing will fit for your boudoir session? You’re not alone. Our client wardrobe celebrates all bodies—from size 0 to 4X—and I guide every client through sizing, fit, and comfort so you’ll feel confident, supported, and ready to shine on shoot day.
Miss G’s Boudoir Experience: Taking the Leap and Feeling Like a Princess
Miss G hesitated at first, thinking the session wasn’t in her budget—but after joining our Facebook community and imagining herself in the experience, she decided to invest in herself. On session day, she felt like a princess—and at her image reveal, she saw just how powerful and beautiful she truly is.
You Don’t Have to Know What to Wear
Not sure what to wear for your boudoir session? You don’t have to have it all figured out. I’ll help you choose flattering, authentic pieces—using our client wardrobe and styling tips—so you feel confident long before the camera clicks.
Miss B’s Experience: From Bridal Expo to Beautifully Confident
Miss B met us at a Bridal Expo and instantly felt drawn in by Constance’s warm, welcoming energy. What started as a spark of curiosity turned into a day of confidence, beauty, and empowerment that left her saying, “I couldn’t believe how gorgeous I looked.”
But What If I Don’t Feel Sexy?
Let’s be real—“sexy” isn’t something most of us feel when we’re in Target leggings and a messy bun. If you’ve ever looked at boudoir photos and thought, “That could never be me,” you are exactly the kind of person I photograph.
Miss N’s Boudoir Experience: Empowered, Confident, and Unforgettable
Miss N walked into her boudoir session nervous but left feeling empowered, confident, and connected. With a couples bonus set featuring her husband, she discovered just how beautiful she truly is—inside and out.
You’ve Never Done This Before—That’s Exactly Why You Should
Most women who step in front of my camera have never done anything like this before—and that’s exactly why they should. You don’t need confidence or experience; just a willingness to say yes to yourself.
From Stress to Self-Love: Miss S’s Boudoir Experience
✨ Client Spotlight: Miss S ✨
“I had a very love/hate relationship with myself and my body image… but my session at Boudoir by Constance changed everything. I felt beautiful, powerful, and I had so much fun. I cried when I saw my images — I had no idea I could feel this confident!”
Don’t wait to put yourself first. Every woman deserves to see herself in a new light. 💕
What If You Made Room for You?
I know how easy it is to stay busy. There’s always one more email, one more appointment, one more to-do list that needs your attention. Slowing down can feel impossible—and even a little selfish.
You Give So Much—When Do You Receive?
But what if this time, you made a different choice? What if you decided to pour into yourself for once? Boudoir isn’t just about taking photos—it’s about pressing pause.
What If You Could See Yourself the Way Others Do?
We’re our own harshest critics. It’s so easy to zero in on every wrinkle, every soft spot, every part of ourselves we’ve been taught to fix or hide. But what if, for once, you could step outside of that inner critic and see yourself the way others do?
You’re Not Alone (and You’re Not Broken)
This experience isn’t about proving anything to anyone else. It’s about looking in the mirror and seeing the woman who’s carried so much and is still standing.
Miss S Finally Said Yes to Herself — A Boudoir Experience Years in the Making
To the women still on the fence — especially those worried about what they think they should do to get "boudoir ready" — Miss S has a message:
“Do it! You deserve to feel incredible. Do it for yourself, but enjoy the gift of sharing it with others who love you too.”

